What can The ‘IT’ Factor be? Is it how much money one may have, is it popularity or status? No! Well at least not for me. As I grow in maturity of mind and heart I come to learn and truly understand what it means to have that ‘IT’ factor. I believe true love naturally gravitates towards its counterpart. There are many people who come up with their own rules, lists, and ideas of what and who their true love should be like, look like and etc…. LOVE! It’s not a choice, it has no silly lists of what one should have, it’s just comes naturally.

I have no list of qualifications nor do I have any expectations of another. The ‘IT’ Factor is unexplainable…

Just like true LOVE, it’s not forced it’s not made up of silly list of qualifications it just happens. You may not know why your drawn to a certain person but you are. You may not understand why ever since you two first met, it was an instant connection from the start it just happened that way. It may not be the right time or even the right person you think to yourself  but it’s just something about them, they just ooze that ‘IT’ factor. Their not perfect, They are flawed just like us all but it’s just something about that person that makes them special and stand out from the rest.

It’s not their looks alone or even what they may possess, it’s just something about them that makes them have that ‘It’ factor…

No! It’s not about money or even the finer things in life. I mean who wouldn’t want them but material gain is not what makes us happy, especially for not for me. I could have had all the material things like a car, clothes, shoes, jewelry and trips to practically anywhere I wanted to go but I knew that if I chose that life with that particular person I wouldn’t have been truly happy. That situation taught me that true love was deeper than  clothes, status, popularity, shoes and trips to the islands. I knew that an honest character and a good heart was worth more than looking like a MILLION BUCKS.

It’s unexplainable!  A natural connection from the start that’s hard to ignore. A connection on so many levels it feels a bit scary but yet so good. It’s nothing material and has no status. We knew ‘IT’ when we first laid eyes. They stood out from the crowd and can not compare to the rest. Everything about them is interesting and peculiar. They’re like a breath of fresh air like a cool morning breeze. Their not perfect, they have issues just like the rest. It’s just a thing called The ‘IT’ Factor